Our Reality
You will notice immediately that and MenandMeToo.com we are passionately committed to making better, more vital men, but we are not web designers. We make no apology for that, and will gladly accept the help of anyone who wants to volunteer with web design and graphic design skills! We need it so we can remove this qualifier from our front page! Contact us.
Our Vision
Create a world in which no man harasses, abuses, or is violent with a woman, and every man lives his truth and vitality.
Our Work
Our work is to support men in exploring the confusions, frustrations, issues, concerns, and opportunities presented by women through the #MeToo moment. Specifically, we are:
- Creating insights and perspectives that assist us in understanding ourselves as men.
- Creating experiences to go deeper–emotionally, imaginatively, soulfully–to explore the sources on non-toxic, generative masculinity.
- Enabling safe spaces for deep exploration.
Look for our work in the following formats:
- Monthly meetings for exploration–come once or as often as you like. These meetings are open to all men interested in learning and exploring more.
- Short programs–four to eight week programs for deep exploration on a theme or topic. These groups establish and maintain a strong container for the deeper exploration to occur.
- Retreats–retreats form the strongest container of all and a safe space for men to explore the deep inner self from an imaginative, emotional, intellectual, and physicial perspective.
Who We Are
Tom and Tony are passionate about addressing the underlying forces at work in men which result in #MeToo types of behaviors. We are both highly experienced professionals who have been working with men for many, many years. Brief biographies are below.
Tom Esch
Tom Esch has been leading significant conversations with men since 1982. He has master’s degrees in Conflict Facilitation and Organizational Change from the Process Work Institute in Portland, Oregon and in Theology from the University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana.
Tom has a background as an ordained minister and currently is President of Esch Consulting, LLC, a business that helps people wake up to their true power and use it more skillfully.
He is currently one of the key leaders in the Twin Cities facilitating conversations with men in the wake of the “#MeToo” movement.
See more at www.EschConsulting.com
Anthony Signorelli
Anthony Signorelli is an author, former training consultant, and former editor of Inroads: A Journal fo the Male Soul. He currently serves as Executive Director of Blue Harbor Center for the Arts.
Believing strongly that language matters, Anthony delves into the intricacies of language for its impact on how we think and what we are able to feel. His training background builds high end, interactive exercises into all group activities.
Anthony is the author of several books, and his Men and #Me Too essays are published on his author blog at www.anthonysignorelli.com.


